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The last stage: The perils of a cancer patient
A patient caught in last stage due to cancer has not chance of looking back to live a positive good life.

The first stage in our lives is when we enter this world. From the small dark womb of our mothers where we have little space to spread our hands and legs, we get a bigger and unlimited space to do so, once we are out in this big world.

Our first day in this beautiful and happy world is the happiest day for our parents, as they treat themselves the most blessed people and are happy to accept whatever they get – a girl or a boy. The most important thing is that they get labeled as mom and dad or as parents.

Further, we see many stages in life from an infant to an adult. We enjoy our school days, our teenage days, our college days, with our family, our siblings, our friends and our colleagues. There are so many people that we come across, make friends, get bonded and then depart from each other for betterment or prosperity.

After lots of enjoyment in life, there comes a period is some of our lives wherein we get trapped in a dreadful sickness. We try possible doctors to get a positives solution out of it. But there comes a time when the doctor ends up saying "last stage". What does this mean?

Last stage of our life, we are caught in a serious sickness where coming back to normal life is impossible and the doctor has given up on everything that he/she tries to save a soul. Anything can happen anytime, so uncertain about whether tomorrow's sun will be our joy or not.

What a painful situation in the family. If the stage is for a child then the parents have a nightmare and if it's a wife who end ups in such a situation for her husband or a husband sees that stage for his wife, it's so painful. Either of them goes back to their good days and tries to give their best and make the remaining days fruitful or worthwhile.

Cancer is one of the kinds that kill your beloved ones along with the patient. The members of the family keep no stone unturned to keep the loved one alive and give everything that makes them happy but repeatedly.

The dreadful disease occurs and reoccurs confining one just to the bed like a dead body and suddenly one day we discover that the person does not exist anymore. All the memories and the good days spent with the beloved just start screening in our mind.

Imagine a child watching his mother going through such pain and is aware that his mother might not make it back, it's so threatening. The child will lose all the pampering, all the foods and all the luxury the enjoyed while his mother was there.

The same applies to a husband losing his wife or a wife losing her husband, or a grown up losing their parents. For all the stages their beloved ones are someone that nobody can replace…

After seeing so many good and happening days in our life. Getting all the success, coming from scrap to some status and suddenly coming to a situation where we are on a so called "LAST STAGE" in our life is a very-very painful word to hear or a situation to deal with.

I hope everybody stays blessed, happy and healthy.

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